muonman wrote:I was not posting to brag. My score is nothing to brag about anyways. This situation has gotten me so stressed out, I could not even sleep well last night.
For most of you, grad school might be the next logical step. But for me, I am already working. I got a job. A high-paying job. With my own office. Everybody I know basically thinks I'm happy career man. I took the PGRE in secret and didn't even tell anyone outside this forum. It'd be career suicide for me to quit to go to school full-time again. Except for that school. Harvard my bosses would understand, perhaps even appreciate and maybe invite me back someday to the firm.
Yes, when I was a student like you, I scored very very low on my first PGRE. No school wanted me. That's why I'm working now. I thought to myself, if I could join the 900 club then I'd be good enough to enter the game again. But I didn't... I am having a serious confidence crisis (considering how much time I spent studying for that stupid test, I should have done at least 890 or so), coupled with my very comfortable lifestyle right now, I really don't know if I should apply, guys... I need the forums advice....
Muonman, this is YOUR life. If you want to go to grad school for physics then do it. Don't make your chances of getting in minimal because you boss will only respect Harvard. That is ridiculous.
You have a shot at Harvard, but very few people have a large chance of getting in. Don't decrease your chances of getting in b/c you limit yourself only to Harvard.
Remember that getting into a physics PhD program anywhere is wonderful and something to be proud of and is deserving of respect.
An 810 on the PGRE means that you did better than ~76% of all people taking the test! Remember that the people taking the PGRE are not a cross section of the normal population. They are not even a cross section of all physics majors. The only people who take the physics GRE are physics majors who are striving for a PhD. You competed against a group of, arguably, some of the smartest college grads there are, and did better than 3/4 of them! Be happy. You deserve to get into a PhD program, whether or not your boss respects the program.
Anyway, my point is that you should apply to more schools than just Harvard. It is your life and your decision. Don't ask if other people will be happy with you going to a grad school other than Harvard. Ask, "Would you be happy with a PhD from a school that is not Harvard?" Also ask, "Am I willing to give up some of the comforts I have now to obtain the degree?"
If you answer yes to both of the above questions, then you should not limit yourself. You should apply to Harvard and to other schools to make sure you get in. You should go for it.